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Well, where do I start? I could start at many stages in my life; all very exciting and adventurous in some sort of way. Probably best to start when I met my husband 10 years ago, as this was the turning point in my very emotional and dramatic life. Met Ben through work, we had a wonderful life together, very ambitious, career driven until we decided to started a family 4 years later. The fertility Journey did take 2 years to conceive but we got there eventually and conceived little Thomas, now for someone like me who has no patience what so ever this was a agonizing and stressful wait but well worth it. We moved from our home town Bournemouth to Ipswich with Ben's work, I gave up my careern and then married in Cumbria in 2009. We continued to have 2 more children very easily compared to Thomas, Jesiica and Baby Wilson.
One of the main reasons I have set up this blog is to gather advice and information on how I can be guided through my Journey into Christianity. "We need others around us who know Jesus. Who want God to influence their lives", "The Spiritual Starter Kit" Lesson # 5 - The value of other believers.
I am not perfect nor do I want to be, I am not here to change the world, or the way people think. I am just here to be happy and put the past behind me, wash away all the pain and view the world differently to the way I see it today. I want to be happy in no matter what I do, feel completeness and at peace with the world and admire all the beautiful things it has to offer me, my family and all my beautiful friends. I know this can happen it is just a matter of believing!


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Saturday, 2 June 2012

My personality and excepting your not liked by everyone


Ok this defo sums me up!!
No wonder some people look at me funny!!!!
How do you stop worrying about what people think about you. I hate the fact that I want to be liked by everyone. I just like people, cannot help it!!
It just hurts when people look at me funny and ignore me.
And, yes, I do get the feeling that I am to happy some times, have got too much enthusiasm..



The Sanguine’s Emotions
*Compulsive talker
*Exaggerates and elaborates
Dwells on trivia
Can’t remember names
Scares others off
Too happy for some
*Has restless energy
Egotistical
Blusters and complains
*Naive, gets taken in
*Has loud voice and laugh
*Controlled by circumstances
Gets angry easily
*Seems phony to some
*Never Grows Up

Am I one of those people that other people only like in small doses, if so for someone like me who likes to be around other people and be liked, how do you cope with this emotion, as it feels like rejection every time.

I am sure knowing what I am like is the first part of dealing with these emotions and situations. Any of you out there like me and feel the way I do?
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3 comments:

  1. Families and Happiness2 June 2012 at 18:34

    It feels quite depressing reading you won weakness especially all these and they are so true!
    Weaknesses of a Sanguine
    The Extrovert | The Talker | The Optimist

    The Sanguine’s Emotions
    *Compulsive talker
    *Exaggerates and elaborates
    Dwells on trivia
    Can’t remember names
    Scares others off
    Too happy for some
    *Has restless energy
    Egotistical
    Blusters and complains
    *Naive, gets taken in
    *Has loud voice and laugh
    *Controlled by circumstances
    Gets angry easily
    *Seems phony to some
    *Never Grows Up

    The Sanguine As A Parent
    Keeps home in a frenzy
    Forgets children’s appointments
    *disorganized
    Doesn’t listen to the whole story

    The Sanguine At Work
    *Would rather talk
    forgets obligations
    Doesn’t follow through
    *Confidence fades fast
    *Undisciplined
    *Priorities out of order
    *Decides by feelings
    *Easily distracted
    Wastes time talking

    The Sanguine As a Friend
    *Hates to be alone
    Needs to be center stage
    *Wants to be popular
    Looks for credit
    dominates conversations
    Interrupts and doesn’t listen
    answers for others
    Fickle and forgetful
    Makes excuses
    Repeats stories

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  2. Families and Happiness2 June 2012 at 18:47

    Ok sounds good to me, I have a lot to work on.
    we can turn those weak areas into secondary strengths that augment our primary strength.
    http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/03/work-from-your-strengths-train-up-your-weaknesses/

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  3. Families and Happiness2 June 2012 at 18:49

    What’s your purpose in life? What is your model of how the universe works? Are your beliefs accurate? By striving to develop an accurate and empowering belief system

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