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Well, where do I start? I could start at many stages in my life; all very exciting and adventurous in some sort of way. Probably best to start when I met my husband 10 years ago, as this was the turning point in my very emotional and dramatic life. Met Ben through work, we had a wonderful life together, very ambitious, career driven until we decided to started a family 4 years later. The fertility Journey did take 2 years to conceive but we got there eventually and conceived little Thomas, now for someone like me who has no patience what so ever this was a agonizing and stressful wait but well worth it. We moved from our home town Bournemouth to Ipswich with Ben's work, I gave up my careern and then married in Cumbria in 2009. We continued to have 2 more children very easily compared to Thomas, Jesiica and Baby Wilson.
One of the main reasons I have set up this blog is to gather advice and information on how I can be guided through my Journey into Christianity. "We need others around us who know Jesus. Who want God to influence their lives", "The Spiritual Starter Kit" Lesson # 5 - The value of other believers.
I am not perfect nor do I want to be, I am not here to change the world, or the way people think. I am just here to be happy and put the past behind me, wash away all the pain and view the world differently to the way I see it today. I want to be happy in no matter what I do, feel completeness and at peace with the world and admire all the beautiful things it has to offer me, my family and all my beautiful friends. I know this can happen it is just a matter of believing!


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Friday 1 June 2012

I am the Saguine Temperament!

Ok, I am starting to understand better, why I am the way I am!!!
So from the research I have just done, as I am so embarrassed to ask other people how they find me, is that I have a personallity/temperament of Sanguine Temperament. As I clicked on the following site and read it , it made me smile and even want to cry! I was asking God to direct me and show me wisdom; and maybe he just has! Just not quite sure I want to be happy about this temperment or sad! Will have to read more!

http://temperaments.info/sanguine.htm

Maybe if I understand what I am  like and why I think the thoughts I do I may be able to deal with my feelings about life and other people better! I am way to sensitive but this must be for a reason.

"Sanguine In Inclusion...
Inclusion is the area of relationships that has to do with society and superficial relationships. If you are a Sanguine in Inclusion, you have a need for a great deal of social interaction. You enjoy the company of others. You prefer to be with others rather than being alone, and will actively seek out social contact much of the time.
A Sanguine in Inclusion is the life of the party. They have a real need for the attention of others. St. Peter was no doubt a Sanguine. At the site of the transfiguration, he is ready to set up three tents to entertain the guests! Too bad we could not find a picture of Peter looking more like the Sanguine that he was!
One interesting characteristic of the Sanguine temperament is a tendency to exaggerate. A good time is remembered as a terrific event. A modest accomplishment becomes a major victory.
Most Sanguines will not even perceive these exaggerations as untruthful, but rather they tend to believe their own hyperbole.
Strengths of those blessed with this temperament include:
Being Friendly and Approachable
Inspirational to Others
Very Relationship Oriented
Genuinely Liking People
Perennially Optimistic
Parents of Sanguine In Inclusion children are frequently dismayed. The parents work very hard during the formative years to provide discipline and structure. As they enter adulthood, these same children will revert to behaviors that the parents thought had been thoroughly dealt with.
The fact is that Sanguines in Inclusion are relatively weak-willed, and easily succumb to temptation. Sanguines find it nearly impossible to deny themselves. One of the keys to helping Sanguines overcome their problems is to be sure they know their emotional needs can be met, and that they risk losing their ability to meet those needs unless they correct their behavior. Providing love and affection as a reward for right behavior has been known to help many a Sanguine discipline themselves into appropriate behavior.
To keep a Sanguine healthy and happy, know that they need:
To be the center of attention.
To be accepted rather than rejected.
To have plenty of social interaction.
To be employed in a situation that provides plenty of human contact in addition to their tasks.
To have plenty of activity. A tired Sanguine is a happy Sanguine.
To be praised and honored for their achievements.
To be complemented for their work.
To receive plenty physical attention, kisses, hugs, etc.
To really understand how the different temperaments work, how they blend, and how they interact, you are invited to experience the course Created In God's Image."

5 comments:

  1. Oh my goodnes this just so sums me up!! So so so trure!

    To keep a Sanguine healthy and happy, know that they need:
    To be the center of attention.
    To be accepted rather than rejected.
    To have plenty of social interaction.
    To be employed in a situation that provides plenty of human contact in addition to their tasks.
    To have plenty of activity. A tired Sanguine is a happy Sanguine.
    To be praised and honored for their achievements.
    To be complemented for their work.

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  2. Created In God's Image is the Gold Standard for understanding the temperament that God created within you. Learn how you have been designed to relate to others, to work, to a a spouse, and to God.
    No relationship is unaffected by the temperament. The better your understanding of your temperament, the better your relationships and your life will be.

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  3. Gosh!!
    This is so me!
    The Sanguine in Control actually needs a terrific amount of support, praise, and commendation. If things go wrong, or he does not feel sufficiently appreciated, he will sink into a mire of self-pity, drowning in a sea of resentment because they feel

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  4. You got me curious so I did a quick test for me--Idealist!

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  5. Hi Galen, Good to hear from you. And; do you feel that it describes you very well? Does and will it help you when you doubt yourself and things around you? It certainly has for me!
    I would really like to read the book but will not pay that amount of money for it!
    xxx
    I am very intrigued now! I want to know more.

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